Everybody has been there; so crazy in love. So far gone that nothing seems too outrageous to do or say. Feeling completely willing to beg, steal, or blackmail for the attention of that one person. But being so smitten by somebody that it makes you feel possessed, doesn’t mean it is okay to act possessed. But for some people, it does, and they do.
At some point in their lifetime, most guys will have a close encounter, of the weird kind, with the girl who is so crazy in love with him that she does outrageous things to get him and keep him.
At first, it is almost impossible to tell if a girl is one of those girls who will go off the deep end for a guy. They come in a variety of levels of attractiveness. She can be extremely educated or uneducated. Her family could have money, or she could be living on the poverty level. This makes it difficult for a man to know what he can expect when he gets involved with any woman. And it makes it even more of a gamble when it comes to hooking up with one of the crazy for love girls.
A relationship with one of these girls will almost always start out in a way that makes the guy feel like he hit the relationship jackpot. She will seem extremely understanding when he wants to go out with the boys. She will not even blink an eye as he tells her that he wants to take things very slowly, and not rush into a committed relationship. It will seem as if nothing really ruffles her feathers where he is concerned. But underneath her calm cool manicured surface, there is an explosion of emotion just waiting to go off.
Just when the guy starts to feel as though she may be the one, this girl starts to show signs of cracking. At first it’s little things that he lets her explain away. But after a few too many of those explainable episodes, he starts to back up and then she loses it.
Initially this type of girl, still believing that she has a chance, will try to get back on her best behavior. But usually by this time, it’s too late. She has managed to give her prince charming cold feet and no amount of heat will warm them up.
Now all bets are off and she is going full throttle to win back her one true love. There is nothing this girl won’t try to get back in with her guy. It doesn’t seem to register with her that he is long gone and not coming back. First there are the multiple phone calls at all hours of day and night. She leaves message after message, and in between ringing the phone off the hook, she is texting little messages to try to get him to give her some kind of sign. For this girl, even no sign is a good sign.
The only way that this girl will ever let go of her guy is to find a replacement true love. And she eventually will, but not until she has shown up at his work, made friends with every member of his family, and hit on each of his closest friends. And she did it all because she was crazy in love.